Looking for the best sex toys on the market? After owning and reviewing hundreds of sex toys, it’s amazing just how many have faded into the abyss of mediocrity. Some toys, on the other hand, stand out as unforgettable. Below, I’ve compiled a loooong list of my top picks for several sex toy categories.  As I continue to encounter new favourites, this list will be updated. Enjoy!

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• Best clitoral vibrators
• Best wand vibrators
• Best g-spot sex toys
• Best suction sex toys
• Best penis masturbators
• Best dildos (realistic)
• Best dildos (unrealistic)
• Best partner toys
• Other must-have items
• Gift Sets

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Best Clitoral Vibrators

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#1. We-Vibe Tango

After almost three years, the We-Vibe Tango remains my #1 favourite clitoral vibe. It’s still the strongest bullet vibrator on the market. It’s rechargeable, waterproof, rumbly, and is ideal for firm, pin-point stimulation.  Couldn’t live without my Tango….

Read my full review here or get it at one of the following stores:

 Lovehoney USA ($79 USD and 1-year product guarantee policy)

 Peepshow Toys ($71.10 USD when you use my 10% off coupon RUBY)
 Lovehoney UK (£54.99 GBP and 1-year product guarantee policy)
 Lovehoney Canada ($89 CAD and 1-year product guarantee policy)
 Lovehoney AU ($94 AUD and 1 year product guarantee policy)
 Lovehoney EU (€79 and 1-year product guarantee policy)

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#2. We-Vibe Touch

The We-Vibe Touch is the We-Vibe Tango’s cuddlier cousin. It still houses that same strong, rumbly motor, but its silicone exterior softens the vibrations somewhat, allowing it to be used by those who don’t need that sheer, firm power. If you like a softer touch, and don’t need absolute pin-point stimulation, this might be your best bet.

Read my full review here or purchase from one of the following:

#3. FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet Massager

This was a surprise favourite this year. While the FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet Massager isn’t as rumbly as the We-Vibe Tango, it’s still strong, half the price, and offers many of the same features (waterproof, rechargeable, pin-point). Thanks to its long battery shelf-life, I don’t need to recharge it very often, which makes it a reliable go-to during spontaneous play sessions. That low price-point makes this one of my most recommended clitoral vibes.

Read my full review here and pick it up at:

 Peepshow Toys ($49 USD, but you can get it 15% off when you use coupon code RUBYFUNN)

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#4. Blush Exposed Nocturnal Lipstick Bullet Vibrator

This is one of the strongest vibrators I tested in 2018. With incredible intensity (as well as conveniently being waterproof and rechargeable), the Exposed Nocturnal is a great option for those that love pin-point stimulation. It’s buzzier than the Tango, but oh-so strong and oh-so cheap.

Read my full review here and pick it up at:

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Best Wand Vibrators

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#1. Doxy Die Cast

It’s hard to imagine a wand ever dethroning the Doxy Die Cast as my favourite wand vibrator. It’s super rumbly, super strong, and comes in stunning, glittering colours! It’s also as sturdy as a tank in its die-cast body. Despite its strength, it’s quieter than many wand-style vibes out there. A total powerhouse.

Read my full review here and pick it up at one of the following:

#2. The O-Wand

The O-Wand may be pricey, but it’s also a really darn good wand. Though I personally don’t think it’s stronger than the Magic Wand Rechargeable, I think it’s a better wand overall – it’s waterproof, more rumbly, and so much more attractive.

Read my full review here and pick it up at one of the following:

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#3. Magic Wand Rechargeable

The Magic Wand Rechargeable is  another fantastic wand vibrator.  It’s not as pretty as the Doxy Die Cast, and I don’t think it’s quite as rumbly, but it’s rechargeable/cordless, which is amazing and rare for strong wand vibes! For those of you who enjoyed the original magic wand (Hitachi), rest assured that this version is just as strong and also has a bodysafe silicone head.

Read my full review of the Magic Wand Rechargeable here and pick up at authorized retailers such as:

Peepshow Toys ($124 USD and 10% off with coupon code RUBY)

 SheVibe ($165 CAD)

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#4. Sola Sync

I never formally reviewed the Sola Sync. It was gifted to me last year and it secretly became one of my most-used sex toys. It’s not nearly as rumbly as the Doxy Die Cast or the Magic Wand Rechargeable, but it’s pretty damn strong. Its true appeal, though, is that it has a smaller head than many wands, allowing it to be more pin-point. Its battery also lasts ages when not in use, meaning you can chuck it in your drawer and forget about it until the day you suddenly need an emergency vibe. Simple to clean because it’s waterproof. Also remote-controlled and rechargeable/cordless!

Pick it up at:

Peepshow Toys ($123 USD and 10% off with coupon code RUBY)

SheVibe ($139 USD)

 SheVibe ($154 CAD)

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Best G-spot Sex Toys

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#1. njoy Pure Wand

The G-spot benefits from firm pressure and a bulbous shape. Enter the njoy Pure Wand: a stainless-steel dildo absolutely famous in the sex blogging world for its uncanny ability to deliver G-spot orgasms. The njoy Pure Wand is intense. Its shape makes it very easy to experience not-kidding-around pleasure, and its dual-ended body means that you can warm up slowly on a smaller sphere before graduating to the larger end. I love my njoy Pure Wand and think it’s the best G-spot-focused toy currently on the market.

Read my review here and pick up the njoy Pure Wand at the following:

#2. Jopen Comet II

The Jopen Comet II was my first serious dedicated G-spot product. While I wasn’t a fan of the vibration strength, I fell in love with that bulbous, spherical head. If you can’t quite budget for the njoy Pure Wand, the Comet II is a slightly cheaper alternative.

Read my full review here or purchase from one of the following:

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Best Suction Sex Toys

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#1. Womanizer Liberty

This is a short list because the Womanizer Liberty stands above all the suction-based toys I’ve tried. For those of you who haven’t seen these before, toys like the Womanizer Liberty create a suction effect on the clitoris by using blasts of pulsating air. It’s a unique sensation and can deliver extremely quick orgasms. I found the Womanizer Liberty to have the perfect combination of strength, quietness, and affordability. It’s also rechargeable and waterproof.

My review is here and you can purchase from one of the stores below:

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Best Penis Masturbator Sleeves

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#1. Tenga Flip Zero

The Tenga Flip Zero is famous for its sleek design and intense textures, and it’s my partner’s favourite non-vibrating sleeve to date. It has a sleek, subtle, and discreet design, and it’s cleverly designed to dry fully after washing (pictured above). More importantly, it’s comfortable to hold and it feels fantastic.

Unlike Fleshlight products, which assume you have a giant 9″ penis, the Tenga series provides sensation for typical penises up to 6″ in length and 2″ in width (of course, if you’re longer than this, you can still use their products, you just won’t fit in all the way).

Read our full review here and purchase from one of the following:

#3. Tenga 3D series

If you can’t dish out the funds for a Tenga Flip Hole or Flip Zero, there’s always the Tenga 3D series of male masturbators. They won’t last as long as Flip products, but they’re still aesthetically gorgeous. Their lower price point means that you can experiment with a variety of textures before breaking the bank. I haven’t yet formally reviewed this item, but I bought the polygon model (pictured above) for my partner several months ago and he absolutely loved it. Easy to clean and has a discreet, museum-esque appearance!

To purchase any of the Tenga 3D male sleeves, head on over to:

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 Best Dildo Sex Toys (realistic)

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#1. RealDoll RealCock 2 Dirk

The RealDoll RealCock 2 Dirk is the most realistic dildo I’ve ever reviewed. It has a dual-density moveable shaft, individual floating testicles, and incredible shading and detail. Also 100% silicone, which is of course mandatory for any realistic dildos. It is huge, though, so not for the faint of heart.

There are three RealCock 2 models to date: Dirk, Rockwell, and Jones.

Read my full review of the Dirk here and purchase from the links below:

#3. Vixen Creations VixSkin Bandit

The VixSkin Bandit by Vixen Creations is a lovely, squishy, dual-density silicone dildo. Available in a variety of skin tones, the VixSkin Bandit ended up being one of my favourite dildos of 2016.  Though not as huge as the RealDoll RealCock2, the Bandit still feels pretty girthy and satisfies that realism craving.

Read my full review here and purchase below:

 Peepshow Toys ($102 USD and 10% off with coupon code RUBY)

 SheVibe ($129 CAD)

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#4. Tantus Mark O2

The Tantus Mark O2 was the first high-quality dildo I purchased. It was one of my first silicone dildos and it was my first realistic dildo. I fell in love immediately. It’s part of Tantus’ O2 line of dual-density toys, meaning there’s a firm inner core and a soft outer layer. It’s not ultra-realistic, rather more stylized, but it’s a good step in-between unrealistic and realistic. Available in light cream, tan, and brown. Even though I’ve tried dozens of dildos since this one, the Mark O2 has remained one of my favourites.

Read my full review here and purchase below:

 SheVibe ($89 USD)

 SheVibe ($99 CAD)

 Uberkinky (£55 GBP)

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Best Dildo Sex Toys (unrealistic)

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#1 nJoy Pure Wand

My top pick is the nJoy Pure Wand. It’s also my favourite G-spot sex toy, so it’s already described on this page here.

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#2 LELO ELLA

If you’re fairly new to dildos and you’re not looking for a size-wise challenge, definitely try out Lelo Ella. Double ended so that you can experience a G-spot curve or the straight end, the Ella is slim, luxurious, and well-made. Best of all, it comes in white, black, and purple.

See my full review and purchase below:

#3 Fun Factory Tiger Stub Dildo

The Fun Factory Tiger is one sexy dildo. It’s big, it’s banded, it’s beautiful. Designed with multiple bumps to stimilate the G-spot, and made with lovely, bodysafe silicone, this dildo went down in my books as one of the best on the market.

Read my review or purchase below:

SheVibe ($59 USD)

SheVibe ($75 CAD)

Uberkinky (£35 GBP)

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Best Partner Toys

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#1 We-Vibe Sync

Out of all the partner toys I’ve tried (i.e., the wearable toys to be worn during PIV sex), the We-Vibe Sync is the best. That clitoral arm is STRONG, and it’s comfortable, can be controlled via an app or a remote control, and it’s bodysafe. I wasn’t a fan of the older We-Vibe models like these, but this one is amazing.

Read my full review here and shop below:

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Other must-have items

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#1. Liberator Wedge

The Liberator Wedge changed sex for me. It turned missionary position from a gentle, cutesy position into a workout that delivered fierce pleasure. It does this by propping your pelvis up at just the right height, allowing your partner to reach deeper than is usually possible in missionary. This results in some solid AFE-zone stimulation (intense pleasure). It’s also handy for other sex positions, but it’s an absolute MUST for missionary. Also available in plus-size. It may just look like a stuffed pillow, but that foam body has the ideal firmness and durability to hold you up. Mine still looks brand new. Machine washable colours.

Read my full review here and purchase from below:

#2. Sliquid lubricant

Sliquid quickly became my favourite personal lubricant brand. Their lubricants are high-quality, body-safe, and come in a wide variety of flavours and bases. For use with silicone toys, I recommend their waterbased Sliquid H2O line or one of the Sliquid Swirl flavours (I have Green Apple and it’s divine).

If you’re as lucky as I am, your local pharmacy will carry Sliquid. If not, try one of the shops below:

#3. Liberator Throe

The Liberator Fascinator Throe may look like an ordinary blanket, but it is so much more than that. An inner lining makes this blanket waterproof, allowing you to let loose without fear of damaging your bed, couch, carpet, etc. One side is satin and the other side is coated in a velvish, microfiber, or fluffy texture. They come in a wide variety of colours (from raging red to subtle brown), meaning they can blend in with your furniture if they have to. Totally washable and a go-to for saving beds from female ejaculate (squirting orgasms), semen, urine, and wine.

I own but haven’t formally reviewed one of these. You can purchase from one of the shops below:

Best Sex Toy Gift Sets

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#1. We-Vibe Discover Gift Box

The We-Vibe Discover Gift Box is a collection of 10 pleasure objects and accessories. It includes the famous We-Vibe Tango, as well as the We-Vibe Dusk and the Womanizer Starlet.  Its packaging is fun and totally gift-worthy.

I loved and reviewed it here.

  We-Vibe.($249 USD)

We-Vibe ($289 CAD)

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