Looking for the best sex toys on the market? After owning and reviewing hundreds of sex toys, it’s amazing just how many have faded into the abyss of mediocrity. Some toys, on the other hand, stand out as unforgettable. Below, I’ve compiled a loooong list of my top picks for several sex toy categories. Unlike other websites that give you stock photos and fake reviews, these are all toys I’ve actually owned and reviewed. As I continue to encounter new favourites, this list will be updated. Enjoy!
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- Best clitoral vibrators
- Best suction sex toys
- Best wand vibrators
- Best g-spot sex toys
- Best penis masturbators
- Best dildos (realistic)
- Best dildos (unrealistic)
- Best partner toys
- Other must-have items
Best Clitoral Vibrators
#1. We-Vibe Tango X
The We-Vibe Tango X remains my #1 favourite clitoral vibe. It’s still the strongest bullet vibrator on the market. It’s rechargeable, waterproof, rumbly, and is ideal for firm, pin-point stimulation. Couldn’t live without my Tango….
Read my full review here or get it at one of the following stores:
- Peepshow Toys ($72.08 USD when you use my 10% off coupon RUBY)
- Lovehoney ($79 USD with the option of international currencies plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet Massager
This was a surprise favourite in 2017. While the FemmeFunn Ultra Bullet Massager isn’t as rumbly as the We-Vibe Tango, it’s still strong, half the price, and offers many of the same features (waterproof, rechargeable, pin-point). Thanks to its long battery shelf-life, I don’t need to recharge it very often, which makes it a reliable go-to during spontaneous play sessions. That low price-point makes this one of my most recommended clitoral vibes.
Read my full review here and pick it up at:
- Peepshow Toys ($49 USD, but you can get it 15% off when you use coupon code RUBYFUNN)
#3. We-Vibe Touch
The We-Vibe Touch X is the We-Vibe Tango X’s cuddlier cousin. It still houses that same strong, rumbly motor, but its silicone exterior softens the vibrations somewhat, allowing it to be used by those who don’t need that sheer, firm power. If you like a softer touch, and don’t need absolute pin-point stimulation, this might be your best bet.
Read my full review here or purchase from one of the following:
- Peepshow Toys ($90 USD when you use my 10% off coupon RUBY)
- Lovehoney (international) ($99 USD with the option of international currencies plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#4. Blush Limited Addiction Power Vibe
The Blush Limited Addiction Power Vibe is one of best vibrators I tested in 2022. With incredible intensity (as well as conveniently being waterproof and rechargeable), it’s a great option for those that love pin-point stimulation. It’s buzzier than the Tango, but oh-so strong and oh-so cheap.
Read my full review here and pick it up at:
- Peepshow Toys ($34 USD, but you can get it 10% off regular priced items when you use coupon code RUBY)
#5. Evolved GenderX Powerhouse
The Evolved GenderX Powerhouse is super strong and rumbly and incredibly pleasurable. I love the gender-neutral appearance and marketing behind it. I also love that it’s waterproof, rechargeable, silicone, and comes with a 5-year warranty. This is quite the catch!
Read my full review here or shop from:
- Peepshow Toys ($68 USD but get 10% off regular-priced toys with coupon RUBY)
Best Suction Sex Toys
#1. Womanizer Liberty
The Womanizer Liberty is fantastic! For those of you who haven’t seen these before, toys like the Womanizer Liberty create a suction effect on the clitoris by using blasts of pulsating air. It’s a unique sensation and can deliver extremely quick orgasms. I found the Womanizer Liberty to have the perfect combination of strength, quietness, and affordability. It’s also rechargeable and waterproof.
My review is here and you can purchase from one of the stores below:
- Peepshow Toys ($99 USD and 10% off regular priced items with coupon code RUBY)
- Lovehoney ($99 USD with the option of international currencies plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. We-Vibe Melt
Though pricier than the Womanizer Liberty, I still love the We-Vibe Melt. The suction is super strong and thuddy against the clitoris, and this continually makes me orgasm SUPER easily. It’s quiet, rechargeable, waterproof, and drop dead gorgeous.
My review is here and you can purchase from one of the stores below:
- Peepshow Toys ($149 USD and 10% off regular-priced items with coupon code RUBY)
- Lovehoney ($149 USD with the option of international currencies plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
Best Wand Vibrators
#1. Doxy Die Cast
It’s hard to imagine a wand ever dethroning the Doxy Die Cast as my favourite wand vibrator. It’s super rumbly, super strong, and comes in stunning, glittering colours (I recommend the red for Christmas or Valentine’s)! It’s also as sturdy as a tank in its die-cast body. Despite its strength, it’s quieter than many wand-style vibes out there. A total powerhouse.
Read my full review here and pick it up at one of the following:
- Betty’s Toy Box ($229 USD, but you can get 12% off with coupon RUBY)
- Lovehoney USA ($224 USD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney UK (£149 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($309 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($274 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€169 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. Dame Com Wand
The Dame Com is cordless, waterproof, and rechargeable, three things that full-size wands rarely have. This thing is strong and RUMBLY and its orgasms feel amazing.
Read my full review here and pick it up at:
- Betty’s Toy Box ($125 USD, but get 15% off with code RUBY)
- Naughty North ($195 CAD but get 12% off with code MISSRUBY)
#3. The O-Wand
The O-Wand may be pricey, but it’s also a really darn good wand. Though I personally don’t think it’s stronger than the Magic Wand Rechargeable, I think it’s a better wand overall – it’s waterproof, more rumbly, and so much more attractive.
Read my full review here and pick it up at one of the following:
- Peepshow Toys ($199 USD, but you can get 10% off regular priced toys with coupon RUBY)
- SheVibe ($266 CAD)
#4. Doxy Number 3R
The Doxy Number 3R is a pricey toy for something so small, but it’s a true luxury. You get a fierce, rumbly power packaged up in a glittery blue titanium, aluminum, and silicone body. Unlike the Doxy Die Cast, it’s small and rechargeable/cordless, which really gives you some freedom.
Read my full review here and pick it up at one of the following:
- Peepshow Toys ($189 USD, but you can get 10% off regular-priced toys with coupon RUBY)
- SheVibe ($280 CAD)
- Lovehoney ($199 USD or use international currencies) PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10
- Lovehoney UK (£149 GBP PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($299 CAD PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($324 AUD PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€169 PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#5. Magic Wand Rechargeable
The Magic Wand Rechargeable is another fantastic wand vibrator. It’s not as pretty as the Doxy Die Cast, and I don’t think it’s quite as rumbly, but it’s rechargeable/cordless, which is amazing and rare for strong wand vibes! For those of you who enjoyed the original magic wand (Hitachi), rest assured that this version is just as strong and also has a bodysafe silicone head.
Read my full review of the Magic Wand Rechargeable here and pick up at authorized retailers such as:
- Peepshow Toys ($129 USD and 10% off regular priced toys with coupon code RUBY)
- Lovehoney ($149 USD or use international currencies) PLUS get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- SheVibe ($165 CAD)
#6. FemmeFunn Ultra Wand
For the price, the FemmeFunn Ultra Wand is a ridiculously strong petite wand vibrator. It’s also waterproof, silicone, rechargeable, has a great battery life, and feels amazing. It’s only $69, cheaper than most wands, and an amazing deal for this quality. This is my favourite petite cordless vibrator to date, and it comes in three cute colours: Turquoise, Pink, and Purple.
Read my full review here and pick it up at:
- Peepshow Toys ($69 USD and 10% off with coupon code RUBY)
Best G-spot Sex Toys
#1. njoy Pure Wand
The G-spot benefits from firm pressure and a bulbous shape. Enter the njoy Pure Wand: a stainless-steel dildo absolutely famous in the sex blogging world for its uncanny ability to deliver G-spot orgasms. The njoy Pure Wand is intense. Its shape makes it very easy to experience not-kidding-around pleasure, and its dual-ended body means that you can warm up slowly on a smaller sphere before graduating to the larger end. I love my njoy Pure Wand and think it’s the best G-spot-focused toy currently on the market.
Read my review here and pick up the njoy Pure Wand at the following:
- Peepshow Toys ($120 USD and 10% off with coupon code RUBY)
- Lovehoney USA ($149 USD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney UK (£129 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($139 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($249 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€149 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. Je Joue Juno
The Je Joue has a beautifully tapered tip, a curved shaft, and an unyielding body. It also has lovely rumbly and strong vibrations and comes with giftworthy packaging. These things have made this one of my G-spot go-to’s in 2022!
Read my full review here or purchase from Peepshow Toys.
#3. Blush Noje V1
The Blush Noje V1 has a rigid, hard body and hooked shape that is perfect for intense G-spot pleasure. It’s made from bodysafe silicone, it’s a bright happy colour, and it’s waterproof and rechargeable.
Read my full review here or purchase from one of the following:
- Peepshow Toys ($49 USD when you use coupon code RUBY)
Best Penis Masturbator Sleeves
#1. Tenga Flip Zero
The Tenga Flip Zero is famous for its sleek design and intense textures, and it’s my partner’s favourite non-vibrating sleeve to date. It has a sleek, subtle, and discreet design, and it’s cleverly designed to dry fully after washing (pictured above). More importantly, it’s comfortable to hold and it feels fantastic.
Unlike Fleshlight products, which assume you have a giant 9″ penis, the Tenga series provides sensation for typical penises up to 6″ in length and 2″ in width (of course, if you’re longer than this, you can still use their products, you just won’t fit in all the way).
Read our full review here and purchase from one of the following:
- SheVibe ($89 USD and free shipping)
- Lovehoney USA ($109 USD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney UK (£119 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($199 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($199 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€99 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. Arcwave Voy
The Arcwave Voy is a great option for people who are looking for a custom fit penis sleeve. It’s not everyday that you find a penis sleeve with 8 adjustable tightness options! Plus, with that bodysafe silicone sleeve, you know you’re avoiding unhygienic materials.
Read our full review here and click here to shop directly from ArcWave ($99).
#3. Fleshlight Quickshot Series
The Fleshlight Quickshot is a pleasurable and affordable penis stroker with an open-ended design, meaning that it’ll fit almost all sizes and offers a really fun visual component for you and your partner. I absolutely loved the clear ice Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage, but it also comes in an opaque stamina training version. It’s also bodysafe and easy to clean, making this our favourite penis stroker of 2019.
Read our full review here and purchase from one of the following:
- SheVibe ($32 USD, and ships internationally)
- Lovehoney UK (£34 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($64 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€39 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#4. Tenga Flip Hole Series
The Tenga Flip Hole series is another great option if you can’t quite afford the Flip Zero’s prices. Until my partner tried the Flip Zero, the Flip Hole White was his favourite sleeve.
Read our full review here and purchase from one of the following:
- SheVibe ($89 USD)
- Lovehoney USA ($79 USD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
Lovehoney UK (£79 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10) - Lovehoney Canada ($99 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
Lovehoney AU ($139 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10) - Lovehoney EU (€79 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#5. Tenga 3D series
If you can’t dish out the funds for a Tenga Flip Hole or Flip Zero, there’s always the Tenga 3D series of male masturbators. They won’t last as long as Flip products, but they’re still aesthetically gorgeous. Their lower price point means that you can experiment with a variety of textures before breaking the bank. I haven’t yet formally reviewed this item, but I bought the polygon model (pictured above) for my partner several months ago and he absolutely loved it. Easy to clean and has a discreet, museum-esque appearance!
To purchase any of the Tenga 3D male sleeves, head on over to SheVibe ($39 USD)
Best Dildo Sex Toys (realistic)
#1. RealDoll RealCock 2 James
The RealDoll RealCock2 James is an incredible dildo. Aesthetically, it’s gorgeous. It features touches of realism that other brands don’t offer (noticeably the floating testicles, silicone painted shading, and movable shaft). I love the detail and I love how this feels inside me. I also love how versatile it is with its Vac-U-Lock capabilities — I can strap it to the wall or a sex machine to bring it to life. There’s a lot of justification for the price tag.
Shop at:
- RealDoll USA ($499 USD)
#2. RealDoll RealCock 2 Dirk
The RealDoll RealCock 2 Dirk is another one of the most realistic dildos I’ve ever reviewed. It has a dual-density moveable shaft, individual floating testicles, and incredible shading and detail. Also 100% silicone, which is, of course, mandatory for any realistic dildos. It is huge, though, so not for the faint of heart.
There are several RealCock 2 models to date: Jones, Rockwell, Dirk, Bruce, and James.
Read my full review of the Dirk here and purchase from the links below:
- RealDoll USA ($499 USD)
#2. RealDoll RealCock 2 Rockwell (formerly DTF)
The RealDoll RealCock 2 Rockwell, a follow-up to the RealCock 2 Dirk, equals the original in realism. It features a different design, but still retains the amazing dual-density moveable shaft, individual floating testicles, and incredible shading and detail. This silicone design features a Vac-U-Lock hole, which enables you to wear it with a strap-on harness or use a Vac-U-Lock suction cup to stick it to the wall.
Read my full review here and purchase from the links below:
#2. Uberrime Primo, Optimo, and Maxime
The Uberrime Maxime, Optimo, and Primo are three really stunning dildos. They’re bodysafe, beautifully hand-sculpted, and come in a good range of sizes and colours.
With its small size, the Primo is ideal for quick and easy thrusts. The Optimo is a good middle option for those that want a bit more size. And, lastly, the Maxime is just a monstrosity (in a good way).
You can read my review here, and pick up your own Uberrime Primo ($69), Optimo ($89), and Maxime ($130) at SheVibe! Why do I like SheVibe? They ship internationally, carry a range of body-safe products, and feature some stunning original artwork all over their site!
#3. Vixen Creations VixSkin Bandit
The VixSkin Bandit by Vixen Creations is a lovely, squishy, dual-density silicone dildo. Available in a variety of skin tones, the VixSkin Bandit ended up being one of my favourite dildos of 2016. Though not as huge as the RealDoll RealCock2, the Bandit still feels pretty girthy and satisfies that realism craving.
Read my full review here and purchase below:
- SheVibe ($119 USD)
Best Dildo Sex Toys (unrealistic)
#1 nJoy Pure Wand
My top pick is the nJoy Pure Wand. It’s also my favourite G-spot sex toy, so it’s already described on this page here.
#2 LELO ELLA
If you’re fairly new to dildos and you’re not looking for a size-wise challenge, definitely try out Lelo Ella. Double-ended so that you can experience a G-spot curve or the straight end, the Ella is slim, luxurious, and well-made. Best of all, it comes in white, black, and purple.
See my full review and purchase below:
#3. Maia Max Self Thrusting Dildo
The Maia Max is a decent little self-thrusting sex toy. I adore the removable suction cup, which lets you position the Maia Max at different angles. The remote control makes using it easier (and comes in handy if you have a partner to control it). The thrusts are decent (I count a max thrust speed of 92 strokes per minute, at 1.5″ depth).
Plus, it’s only $109 (plus get 10% off your whole order with coupon code RUBY), which puts this at $99. This is a great price for self-thrusting technology.
If you’re in the market for a self-thrusting sex toy, this should probably be at the top of your list.
You can read my full review here and pick up your own Maia Max here!
#4. Blush Avant D14
The Blush Avant D14 is an impressively affordable bodysafe dildo. It’s pretty, unrealistic, and comes in a lovely pastel colour combination of lavender, yellow, and blue.
I love the suction cup and the hooked shaft, which helps it target the G-spot. But it’s a very bendy toy, and this will limit the amount of pressure you can get against your G-spot. Still, for this unbeatable price, it’s a pretty amazing deal. You can read my full review here.
Best Partner Toys
#1 We-Vibe Chorus
Out of all the partner toys I’ve tried (i.e., the wearable toys to be worn during PIV sex), the We-Vibe Chorus is the best. That clitoral arm is STRONG, and it’s comfortable, can be controlled via an app or Squeeze Remote, plus it’s waterproof, rechargeable, and bodysafe. This one is the best c-shaped couple’s vibrator on the market to date.
Read my full review here and shop below:
- Betty’s Toy Box ($199 USD but use coupon code RUBY for 15% off)
- We-Vibe ($229 CAD)
#2 We-Vibe Sync
If you can’t quite afford the We-Vibe Chorus above, the next best option is the We-Vibe Sync. This is the Chorus’ predecessor, so it’s a little older and doesn’t come packed with all the features the Chorus does. But it’s still an excellent option, with a great design, color options, and strength.
Read my full review here and shop below:
- We-Vibe $199 USD
Other must-have items
#1. Liberator Wedge
The Liberator Wedge changed sex for me. It turned missionary position from a gentle, cutesy position into a workout that delivered fierce pleasure. It does this by propping your pelvis up at just the right height, allowing your partner to reach deeper than is usually possible in missionary. This results in some solid AFE-zone stimulation (intense pleasure). It’s also handy for other sex positions, but it’s an absolute MUST for missionary. Also available in plus-size. It may just look like a stuffed pillow, but that foam body has the ideal firmness and durability to hold you up. Mine is 5+ years old and still looks brand new. Machine washable colours.
Read my full review here and purchase from below:
- SheVibe ($95 USD)
- Lovehoney USA ($124 USD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($144 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney UK (£89 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($149 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€99 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#2. Sliquid lubricant
Sliquid quickly became my favourite personal lubricant brand. Their lubricants are high-quality, body-safe, and come in a wide variety of flavours and bases. For use with silicone toys, I recommend their waterbased Sliquid H2O line or one of the Sliquid Swirl flavours (I have Green Apple and it’s divine).
If you’re as lucky as I am, your local pharmacy will carry Sliquid. If not, try one of the shops below:
- Peepshow Toys ($6.99 USD and up plus get 10% off with code RUBY)
- SheVibe ($8.99 USD and up)
- Lovehoney UK (£19 GBP plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney Canada ($19 CAD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney AU ($24 AUD plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
- Lovehoney EU (€22 plus get 10% off with code HONEYX10)
#3. Liberator Throe
The Liberator Fascinator Throe may look like an ordinary blanket, but it is so much more than that. An inner lining makes this blanket waterproof, allowing you to let loose without fear of damaging your bed, couch, carpet, etc. One side is satin and the other side is coated in a velvish, microfiber, or fluffy texture. They come in a wide variety of colours (from raging red to subtle brown), meaning they can blend in with your furniture if they have to. Totally washable and a go-to for saving beds from female ejaculate (squirting orgasms), semen, urine, and wine.
I own but haven’t formally reviewed one of these. You can purchase from one of the shops below:
#4. Hismith HS06-APP Sex Machine
The Hismith HS06-APP Sex Machine is expensive but amazing. If you want to invest in a good quality, long-lasting sex machine, I recommend this one!
Last Updated on November 6, 2023 by Miss Ruby