Edging is the process of repeatedly bringing you or your partner close to orgasm, then dialing things back by stopping or reducing sensation/touch. This is repeated as many times as wanted, until finally you OK the orgasm to proceed. This means that orgasms are delayed, and can be delayed considerably. Five minutes. Thirty minutes. Two hours. More. As long as all parties are enthusiastically consenting adults, it can be enjoyed as long as possible.
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The Importance of Negative Reviews
Reviews exist in our world so that that consumers can make informed decisions; if we only had the profiting company’s word for it, we’d be in trouble.
When Sex Bloggers Go
We usually don’t find out why a blogger stops blogging. We can only know that we miss them, that we hope they’re well, and that the community doesn’t quite feel the same without them.
(Updated) Here we are again: Silicone Stroker’s Disgusting Advertising
I am not shocked. But I am unequivocally disgusted. This is 2017. How can gendered violence still be thought of as an acceptable marketing tool.
Using Sex Toys to Cope with Sexual Trauma
This is what I’ve learned about how sex toys can help you cope with sexual trauma.
Yes, Consent Applies to Sex Toys Too
Just so you know: consent is still a thing.
Ask Ruby: Where to Buy an Uncut (Foreskin) Dildo?
There aren’t many silicone foreskin/uncircumcised dildos on the market. My quest for uncut silicone dildos was surprisingly short. Below, I’ll detail some of the ones I did find.
How to Start a Sex Toy Review Blog – Connecting with the Community
The other posts in this series set out how you’ll get started with your blog. But this is how you’ll stay.
How to Start a Sex Toy Review Blog – Getting Products for Review
This is probably the most thrilling experience for any new sex toy reviewer. As someone who used to longingly gaze at sex toys I’d never be able to afford, having them sent to me for free….well, you don’t quite get over that feeling.
How to Start a Sex Toy Review Blog – Affiliates
Is being an affiliate worth it? Yes. Possibly. In some cases, it’s been totally worth it for me.