“In the name of the moon, I will punish you!” Read on for my Zalo Confidence Wand review!
Okay, there’s actually no punishment required. But this adorable, princessy wand from Zalo realllly takes me back to the 1990s, when I was a kid watching more Sailor Moon than I care to admit.
The Zalo Confidence Wand gives me a lot of feels. It looks like it belongs in an anime warrior princess’ treasure trove. It’s cutesy, fun, and gentle-yet-striking. Small for a wand (under 1 foot long), it’s fairly dainty, with a slim body, a bulbous, spherical stimulation head, and a shiny ABS plastic gold handle. And that lovely powder, pastel pink – very feminine. If you hate pink, you also have the option of violet.
If you look closely, you’ll see a little heart in the circular handle. This heart is the control lever, which made me smile. Zalo is definitely taking wands in a new direction with this design, and I’m loving it.
But it’s not all about appearances. This wand also gives you a solid series of features.
- 8 vibration modes (including 2 steady states)
- Heating function
- Rechargeable (charge for 1 hour to get 2-4 hours of playtime)
- Lever control, instead of a typical button, which I found pretty intuitive
Vibration and Noise
Vibration-wise, this gives okay moderate strength (7/10). It’s no Magic Wand, but it’s definitely pleasing. It helps that the vibrations are on the rumbly side, not buzzy.
The Zalo Confidence Wand is quiet! Definitely impressed on this front — no one would be able to hear this through walls/closed door. Unless they have superpowers.
How to Use the Zalo Confidence Wand
- Pull the heart-shaped lever to one side to enter standby (a white LED light will flicker at the base of the heart).
- Pull the lever side to side to cycle through the 2 steady states and patterns.
- Apply to your body. Though designed for clitoral use, if you have a penis you could use it against that as well. I don’t recommend using this anally though (no flared base).
- If you’d like to use the heating function, gentle press the heart down (into the base of the toy) for 3 seconds. The white LED light will start pulsing orange. Over 3 minutes or so, the wand will start to warm to a pleasantly warm and toasty temperature. The heat is in the spherical head (where you want it to be).
- To shut down, pull and hold the lever for 3 minutes.
So lovely! The Zalo Confidence Pre-Heating Wand is packaged in a cutesy pink cylinder. It’s coated with intricate, witchy designs, and this is definitely a box to keep if you have the room for it.
Inside the box, you receive the Wand, a short instruction manual, a USB charging cable (flat-style, which means it rarely gets tangled), and a lovely silver and gold storage pouch. The storage pouch is large enough for you to store everything you need.
Material and Care
The Zalo Confidence Pre-Heating Wand is coated in silky soft silicone, making it bodysafe (non-porous, non-toxic, and free of phthalates). It’s matte, doesn’t attract lint too badly, and feels glorious against my skin.
The gold handle and lever are made from ABS plastic. It feels a little cheap, to be honest, but I’ve tried using some aggressive force on the lever but apparently this thing is made solidly. On the little golden heart lever, there’s a cute little SWAROVSKI crystal.
The Zalo Confidence Wand is not waterproof. It’s splash-proof, so you can briefly rinse it underwater, but don’t submerge it. To clean, I rinse quickly in warm, soapy water.
To charge, unplug the tiny little dust cover that protects the charging hold (it has a little lightning bolt on it). Insert the charger and plug into your computer or a USB wall adapter. The white LED light will pulse while it’s charging, and become solid when it’s fully charged. A full charge will get you anywhere between 2-4 hours of use, which is pretty impressive.
My Experience with the Zalo Confidence Wand
The Zalo Confidence Pre-Heating Wand will appeal to a lot of people.
With its moderate strength and solid rumble, this will likely get many a fair clitorises to orgasm (as it has mine). The vibrations feel deep and satisfying, radiating throughout the vulva. I’ve turned to this wand when I’m feeling sensitive, haven’t orgasmed in a while, and I want some soothing rumbling pleasure.
I don’t begrudge the Zalo Confidence Wand for not having that mega 10/10 vibration strength though — because that’s not what this wand is about. Everything about this wand is soft, dainty, and feminine. It feels girly, princessy, and whimsical – and could easily be a huge hit for those who enjoy ddlg roleplay. If this wand was revving with blender-like noise and jumping out of my hand with power, it might break the spell and awe.
A note on the pre-heating function — if you haven’t experienced this in a sex toy before, it’s always a feature that I love. I always find warmth helps blood flow, and more circulation = more sensitivity for me = easier orgasm. I love that I can get this pre-heating without vibrations, so it’s already warm when I start playing (to do this, pull the lever to get it in standby mode, then push the heart lever down).
Anything I don’t like about this wand? Yup — that flexible neck drives me up the wall. I like firm pressure against my clitoris, but the flexible neck prevents me from smushing this against my body as firm as I want.
Overall thoughts – Zalo Confidence Wand review
So I guess that leaves me with this advice:
If you’re a power queen and looking for a dead-serious, get-me-off-right-now-no-nonsense-allowed kind of wand, look elsewhere (highly recommend the Doxy Wand or the Magic Wand). But if you want a wand that will enthrall you with its princessy atmosphere, and you don’t have a clitoris of iron, then consider this one.
To purchase the Zalo Confidence Pre-Heating Wand, head on over to SheVibe ($74 USD at the time of posting).
And see below for my Zalo Confidence Wand review summary.