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I get all kinds of awesome questions through my Ask Ruby contact form and through comments on posts. Seeing as some of you might find my answers useful, I’m sharing them in blog post format. Enjoy!
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Question: Ruby, I am looking at buying a vibrator. I have been using (and this is kinda gross and embarrassing) an electric toothbrush. I really enjoy clit stimulation, but I’m scared that I’ll buy the wrong one for what I want. I want something that has a very strong vibration, and I hate patterns so I don’t want that. I have read through many of your reviews and was wondering if something like the Doxy Massager would suit me?
If you’re looking for strength and broad stimulation, the Doxy wand would be a great choice! The Original Doxy Massager doesn’t come with a silicone head, though, so I’d recommend getting the Die Cast version (it’s more pricey though…something to save for). I find it to be super strong. And, because it’s plugged in, you don’t have to worry about recharging it (but definitely make sure you don’t get near water).
If your toothbrush just gives you pin-point stimulation, which I suspect it does, I recommend the We-Vibe Tango (for $79) It’s extremely strong, rechargeable, waterproof, and totally bodysafe. Some people actually find the Tango toooo strong, so I’d suggest the We-Vibe Touch (for $99) in that case. Both of these have patterns (I don’t care for them either), but they also have steady vibration states.
If you’re wondering between pin-point and broad stimulation…
- You’d probably like pin-point if your electric toothbrush is the width of your finger, or if you prefer to use one or two fingers to manually stimulate your clit.
- You’d probably like broad stimulation if you like even stimulation across the clitoris and the surrounding area.
Sometimes, you just have to do some trial and error! But I can confirm that both the We-Vibe Tango and the Doxy are great, powerful toys.
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any more questions!
Hi Ruby, just replying to let you know I took your advice on the We-Vibe Tango, and have just ordered it. Thanks for the quick reply! You are awesome.
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Last Updated on November 6, 2023 by Miss Ruby
